Thanks everyone for your feedbacks! 
As there was no opinions against what was shared here, the product circle put together a real proposal for particular topics (this post was not a proposal, more a brain dump 
), please have a look here: A proposal to better manage the ‘Community Feedback Pipeline’
As for this thread, a lot of good stuff was shared! Maybe we want to keep it open so that we can “store” all documentation/ideas related to decision making. Otherwise I would suggest we close this thread to avoid duplicate conversations.
Many feedback here were around making decision based on consent. Like @DavieP I’m really comfortable with lazy-consent. Although I never experienced it in super large communities, I personally don’t want to change this aspect of OFN for now. Yet if anyone feels this could be done differently I encourage you to create a new proposal. I would happily contribute to it 